June 28, 2006

Do Women Look Sexy When They’re Angry?

So I was riding around today and heard that Ne-Yo song about how he gets turned on when his woman is angry. Forgive me for being late to get around to this song, but I had an unfortunate attempt and do-it-yourself stereo installation–which would have worked out okay had hte last people in my dashboard not plastic clipped everything–and was without a car stereo.

Anyway, this Ne-Yo song is all him talking about how he just wants to have a session with his woman because of how sexy she looks when she’s angry.

Fellas–am I the only person that can’t attest to that one way or another?

When women get angry, I go away. I have no desire to be around that. I’ve told many a woman “call me when you wanna talk about this.” I ain’t listening to all that screaming. If she’s quiet and brooding when she’s mad, I still don’t wanna be around. I ain’t walkin’ on eggshells just because something’s bothering you, especially if that something’s my fault.

No meaningful conversation takes place when people are angry, so why even try? I believe in letting folks get a grip and an idea of just what’s bothering them. Then we can talk.

And there’s one more thing–if I really messed up and she’s really mad, I don’t wanna have to go to the default.

The default–baby please!

That’s just so unbecoming of someone like me, a child of the Victor Newman School of Dealing with Women.

I hear I miss out on angry sex because of this. The idea is that if you can harness that energy and direct it toward the physical instead of whatever the hell she’s mad at, you can have a mind-blowing experience. I can’t tell you about that. I’d be too busy driving home to try that plan.

So is this just me? Or is there really something erotic about an angry woman? They just look like stress to Young Baba.

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1. They say anger takes days off your life, but i’ll tell you, you’ll remember the angry sex on your death bed.

   Comment by Mr Carter — June 28, 2006 #

2. Nuh uh… Me neither. But instead of going away, I stick around and get myself in deeper doodoo.

   Mr.Carter, good on ya mate for finding a woman who’ll have sex with you when angry. I can’t imagine any woman I’ve ever dated going down that road. You’ll die with a smile on your face though!

   >:-)

   That’s an angry smile…

   Comment by Rex — June 28, 2006 #

3. I’ve had some of my best sessions after, hell sometimes during a fight. Or in the kitchen. Whatever.

   Comment by If all teachers were this hot... — June 28, 2006 #

4. You gotta have mad swagger to pull of an angry sex bout….if you swoop in for the goodie even a minute too early…its CURTAINS.

   Comment by PWordsmith — June 28, 2006 #

5. May I point out that Mr. Ne-Yo is but a mere child at 22 or 23 years of age? Maybe he’ll have changed his mind when he hits 35. However, make-up sex is better than angry sex.

   Comment by Maura Alia — June 28, 2006 #

6. i’ve been pretty angry lately, so sex is the last thing on my mind. and i agree with maura. make-up sex is much better.

   Comment by aquababie — June 29, 2006 #

7. Shid…angry sex is like putting a fresh paint job and aluminum siding on a crackhouse…

   make-up sex/angry sex just covers up the problems…take it from experience

   And whoever said something about you’ll remember angry sex on your deathbed is not telling the truth…

   and that’s coming from another person that attended the Victor Newman School of Dealing with Women, LLC.

   That being said…you’ll remember the good sex, regardless if it’s angry or not. I put drunk/tipsy sex and horny/great sexual chemistry sex over angry/make-up sex any day…

   Comment by Fred Batiste, A Weapon of Mass Destruction — June 29, 2006 #

8. Hey Fred, as long as SHE’S the one who is drunk, and YOU’RE the tipsy one. The last thing you need is to be too inebriated to complete the deed. Not good for either party… But I know what you mean about the “inhibition inhibitor.”

   Comment by Rex — June 29, 2006 #

9. Wow, being drunk over being angry? We’ll leave that one to the PTI gang for the next segment of Toss Up… Particularly since some people get angry WHEN they get drunk.

   Comment by Mr Carter — June 29, 2006 #

10. Sorry, Fred’s right. I don’t want to get near that angry sex bullshit any more than I wanna get near the angry driving, the angry baseball (bats hurt) or the angry kickboxing.

    Comment by Kirk — June 29, 2006 #

11. Bomani,
    I don’t think Ne-yo means when your girl is spitting mad, just a little ticked off and tripping a little.

    Comment by Lita — July 8, 2006 #

12. Maybe it’s just my woman, but her angry face doesn’t make me horny. At all.

    Comment by ETS — July 10, 2006 #

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